Hala, may namiss akong blogger dito bigla. As in sobra. Ngayon ko na lang siya ule nakita sa dash. :(
That “oh siya pala ang ex mo” feeling.
For decades of trying to change people’s behavior and interaction with one another, only one thing was very innate and which many have thought as inherent - the value of being able to judge someone (may it be physically, or what shit), but this is something people can never lose up.
Being judgemental is something that you cannot remove from an individual. As long as there are margins that dictate what is good, there will always be people who’ll correct you. As long as there are conducts that say one is only morally good when it is in line with the law of the scope, there will always be people who’ll criticize your actions. And as long as there are no cultural relativism prongs in society, there will always be a dichotomy between good and evil. And people’s perception in trying to correct one another is solely based on those society’s standards.
Now, if this is something that cannot be removed, what should be done? Change. This is something I want everyone to realize. It’s not always that instances will try to fit what society wants. Sometimes, there is a need of compromise; sometimes, betterment can only be attained when people now are the ones who try to fit themselves on values they have. If you think that judgement against you will always be there, then change yourself to eradicate that judgement from people upon you. This is life. No matter how you want to control it, it’s tough and it will always be beyond human control.
Nakakapagod ding ako ang laging unang kakausap sayo. Yung ako unang laging mag chachat, mag tetext, mag TTA, mag ttweet at kung ano pa. Di ko kasi alam kung namimiss mo rin ako. Di ko kasi alam kung may paki ka rin sakin. Di ko kasi alam kung naaalala mo rin ako gaya ng pag alala ko sayo. Sabihin mo lang kung nakukulitan kana. Sabihin mo kung ayaw mo lang ako kausap. Di ko naman ipipilit sarili ko. Di ko naman ipag sisiksikan ang sarili ko sa taong ayaw naman sakin.
When you really matter to someone that person will always make time for you. No excuses, no lies and no broken promises.